I have a serious question about a friend of mine. He has a problem with wanting to sleep with lots of womane?

Me and my friend have been friends for ten years now..He and I use to date and now we are just friends..not extra..Since I have been with my ex, I dont want to have with anyone and I feel like I need a break from relationships..he says that i am in denial and that i am just like him..he has different woman twice a week sometimes..we also have another friend that has different male friends almost every week..I am not like him or her and it really pissy me off when he says that..I think that intimacy should mean something and not something you do for an urge..he says i am being to judgmental..im I?? Or have i out grown both these relationships..These people are 35 and 36 by the way.